After years of conditioning, it’s easy to question our compass on when to stay and when to leave in a relationship.
“How do I let go, while giving love and attention to the part of me that can’t accept that it’s over?”
Most of us fear or check out from the most painful experiences in relating like divorce, losing a loved one, and having your heart broken. But what if those experiences push us into a wound wanting to be healed?
When you go from looking at your relationship patterns as something wrong or “not healed yet”, to realizing them as the journey you’re here to take, everything changes.
Ever wondered what level of honesty is helpful, kind or required? Should we say everything on our mind or is it more loving not to? And what about when we hide behind honesty to offload on our partner or give our reactions a free pass?
Instead of trying to do MORE, burn out and give up - how about we focus on what will create real embodied shifts?
Let’s play. I want you to have the money needed to invest in what matters - your growth, healing and the life you want to live. Not just utilities, the musts and shoulds, and the distractions. Without knowing it, you’re probably standing in your own way of that.
If you’re constantly looking for problems to fix - that’s what you’re handed. If you keep trying to fix yourself and taking things apart - that’s what you’ll get good at.
Maybe you got used to managing on your own - but how will you open up to receive? Maybe all you long for is loving attention - but the way you learned to receive it is by feeling miserable.
Building the new house is: Practice embodying what you want more of in your life. If you want more love - are you treating all of yourself in a loving way?
If you want to take back personal power, feel more like yourself around others, and create deeper intimacy…
When you keep thinking and speaking from lack - from everything that shouldn’t be here - you’re training your brain to pay extra attention to it and therefore experience more of what you don’t want. Whoops.